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    MTV relationships

    0 תגובות   יום שני, 22/10/07, 18:06

     


     

     

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    MTV relationships
    Current mood: annoyed
    Category: Romance and Relationships

    What the fuck is wrong with me? obviously - a lot


    I lost two friends in one week - one blaming me for all her problems in life, the other saying it's not me - but that "what she is" requires her to disconnect. in both cases the results are the same - the friendship is gone - and not from my side.


    long, long time ago...we been told that the more you give in a relationship - the more you will be seen as being weak. I refuse to believe it but I think it seems true in our sad world.


    I had been in loyal to my ex-wife for 15 years, never imagining betraying her trust, her love, her respect. Did I got lost? yes. Did it hurt? it did - a lot. Did it left side effects like finding hard to go to sleep? it sure did. Yet it doesn't matter what we had between us or what we passed - giving up on a relationship was never an option for me until that one far away evening when it all exploded and with it our relationship. but that's another story to be told.

    Anyway - I always approached all my relationship with this kind of thinking i must be loyal. Heck - I continued being in contact with a woman that even when I realised that this friendship doesn't make sense I could not end it because her daughter and I found a special connection and I felt I couldn't let her daughter (who grew without a father) loose me. I felt I adopted that girl (and she adopted me) and I love her still like one of my kids - but now I can't see her anymore and it breaks my heart.


    So I get this kick in nuts - from two different people I considered as my friends and I think to myself - what's going on here? Where is loyalty? doesn't people stay loyal to each other - and to their relationships?


    We live in the age of MTV relationships - people piss on each other all the time - and when I say piss I mean it's all Pyrotechnics, Illusions, and Stupid Sex. If you want some - go on and grab a handful, but please - just leave me out of it.


    I will respect any person who will want to delete me from their contact list if they feel like that to me. even more - I will thank them for being honest with me!

    Yours

    U


    PS
    I know MTV is not a leader in that field anymore. I used that term because they represent to me the first international channel that actually build up on that concept.

     

     

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