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    "How do you feel?" Or - Why do I have such a small amount of friends in my profile

    1 תגובות   יום רביעי, 24/10/07, 03:11
    "How do you feel?" Or - Why do I have such a small amount of friends in my


    When someone asks you how do you feel it usually goes like that:

    60% of the people expect you to say "Great". After all, they didn't REALLY wanted to know how you feel; they just wanted to sound like they are polite. Try telling them your sheep was run over by a truck and suddenly you will not hear from them anymore.


    20% of the people don't wait for your answer. You owe them something (so they think) and now they contacted you so you could pay for it. You can say "Last night I had an anal sex with a girl, we didn't use protection and she just called me to say she's sorry but she is an HIV positive!!!" And they will go "ohh, that's bad. Now about the cinema night tonight – pick me up at 8 so we can go and have some drink and fun before the movie".  


    19% of the people expect you to say "horrible". Why? Because they think you should be feeling horrible because you're: separated/married/have health issues/your cat have health issues/your mother has issues... whatever. Those are the kind of "friends" that are there for you because they thrive on other's pain. While they will never admit it, they are addicted to other's pain and misery, to compensate on their own inability to be happy and they need to hear about your pain in order to avoid handling their inability to love themselves.
     

    1% doesn't expect anything. They don't "expect" because they REALLY want to know how you really do, they want to truly understand what's going on with your life, they try to find ways to make you laugh when your sad, to kick your ass when you're acting over the top, to be a shoulder to cry on when you feel alone, to surprise you and light up the candle of hope in your heart.


    There are only 1% of those out there who don't expect anything out of you – and only those are your true friends. Treat them as a rare, beautiful and sacred flower…

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        24/10/07 23:58:

      In that case, i don't think i will ask, not today.  I reckon you feel fine, you crazy Israelian

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      thanks for making me a friend, btw

       

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