My last post 'sex with your coffee sir?' was meant to be a funny look at our modern interaction. There was no harm intended and with the exception of a few that felt that I was threatening the life of their beloved 'bikini'…it was taken as it was meant, I think.

But I learnt a few things about writing a successful post: 

- Unlike a post that is read by 45 people if you have 245 there are going to be some unpleasant comments along the way. And you have to except that it won't just be your best pals telling you how great you are (why doesn't everyone love me?).

- Who your real friends are, they are those who send you e-mails the second you post and go in and kick ass when some one rips you to bits (and who are not your friends –remove them and move on).

- Who can take a joke (or at least understands my humour) or who knows how to laugh at themseleves.

- And finally that you make lots and lots of new friends, as a result of your writing (or putting a photo of a hot girl in a bikini….ok ok I will stop) It was an interesting experience…..let's see if I will be so brave again….Thanks to everyone that was there with me and for me.