I just don’t get it, why does everyone else understand that this is not the real world, except for me. My once virtual friends (who I forced to meet me in real life), keep trying to explain to me that the café is not real. That those people who commented in my blog two or three weeks, and I felt a connection with, one day get bored and move on. While I stupidly wonder where they have gone. That all is fair in love and blog. But that’s just not true, for me. I act just as I do in real life. I write my feelings down just as they are. I tell you of my loves and my loss, I open up, and yes sometimes show myself in a poor light. My writing is neither clever nor intellectual. I get cross with people. And yes, when the two world’s meet, I even write post’s about it (to the embarrassment of my dates).
And you know what the funny thing is….. You all behave as you do in real life too. You think your acting differently because it’s virtual but I am not sure you are. We all have those friends that are in contact a lot and then suddenly disappear for a few months, we all know people that never talk about anything personal and always stay on the surface. We have come across in real life, all the characters that we find here in our virtual one. I want to be real, wherever I am. I might seem un-cool. I may bore you with my narrow interests (music and boys). But that’s not the point, I am here being myself……and I am letting you see me. I don’t believe ‘it’s only virtual’ I think that’s just an excuse people use to avoid contact (I wonder what excuse they use in real life?). |
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so glad to hear I am not alone in my thoughts....
thank you. it's means alot.
this is one of the most beautifull posts
,I read hear. Simple
honest but yet profound
it touched me and I agree with you
I feel, my
experience in real life, you can find same
variety of
behavior
stay as you are and keep thouse
qualities
it makes me laugh people think they can act without being responsible or considerate because they are only in contact with people by internet....not in real life. They talk about how they are great friends and caring people in real life, but don't feel any commitment to behave the same on the net.....
don't they realise that this is part of their lives? that these are real people?
you should always be kind and good, not only when the person know where you live...hehe
just makes me laugh.....
now your telling me something I am told all the time in real life.....
I don't know why....but yea maybe my brain is wired a little oddly.....
but I am not really as sweet as you think (that's just your impression, and a nice one at that)....
I know I am not going to have 120 meaningful friendships....(I just wouldn't have the time to meet them)
but that I can make a few real friends and comment and support the ones I like best.....
it doesn't cost anything to be real.....so why not.
I think that your mind is wired differently.
It's always strikes me that you write in a very clear and simple way -THE IMPORTANT ISSUES
You are a true and sweet person.
eran.
really? that's even sweeter of you to say.....u are one of those people I visit everyday......and it's always interesting.
I take that on.....I agree.....for this reason I do like to offer certain individuals (when they are ready) to take it outside as they say....and make it a real not virtual relationship (don't worry I am quietly waiting for you)...hehe
but for now I offer my words (in full love and commitment).....even if they are just words.....
Tami, you know what in non-virtual life i also have great expectations from people and I don't get the same back from everyone....
I know this anonimous thing people have going.....but as I said in the post....
it's just not me...
I really believe I can only be myself....and the friends I make here or there appreciate that in me.....so it won't be everyone (but it will be those that matter)
thanks your always a great help to me.....
בתקשורת הוירטואלית, בניגוד לתקשורת בעולם האמיתי, אפשר בכל זאת לשמור על מידה של אנונימיות.
באינטרנט, את יכולה להוציא איזה תכנים שבא לך, להגיב רק למה שבא לך, לחשוף או להשאר נייטרלית על פי בחירתך, להעלם ולחזור על פי בחירתך.
בחיים האמיתיים זה לא עובד ככה.
לכן ההתייחסות לחברים באינטרנט כאל חברים אמיתיים, תלויה בבחירה של כל אחד ואחד.
בכל מקרה כיף שאת מתייחסת בתשומת לב רבה לכל אחד אחד מחברייך הוירטואליים !
(אבל תנמיכי ציפיות, לא בטוח שתקבלי יחס דומה מכל אחד..)
שבוע טוב !!
That my dear is the power of real friendship, even if we have never met!
blush and be proud.
you made me smile and blush .
because you are always open and honest and you don't play games, or stay mysterious (to make yourself more interesting) you say that....
because you are in touch with yourself and slightly melencholy at times you are capable of being yourself without masks....
because of who you are and how you write and the fact that you always have time for me....
because of all that your my friend.
I totaly agree with you. what you write is what you are.
there is great honesty in the thing you write but those word can misinterpreted by other.
here you free of being judged by your form. here only your spirit counts
welcome back. I missed you.
(and thank you for the very warm e-mail)
WOW - את טובה!
אני מאחלת לך ולחברים שלך שתשארי כזאת לנצח.
אוהבת את הכנות שלך. חושבת שאת בחורה מקסימה ומיוחדת.