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    Quote: rafac 2007 ארטגירל
    את כותבת פשוט מעולה ואני ממליץ לידידיי הטובים להתאמץ ולקרוא אותך באנגלית
    Don't care about commerce, age or business, only care about people and hearing their stories...opinions and sharing mine. You can comment in Hebrew or English...

    shoot me down like the dog I am

    66 תגובות   יום חמישי, 21/6/07, 10:51

    You think I am so nice, you think I am so sweet. Well I have news for you, most of it is true. Apart from my one downfall, I am a victim of the green monster….Jealousy.

    Although it’s only in relationships (not the ‘they have something I don’t' kind)…I am deeply ashamed of it.

     

    I once stormed out of a restaurant because my boyfriend chatted to the waitress (I think to ask her for a good table)…

     

    I am like a bull seeing red, with regards to pretty women who come near my man.

     

    I am supposed to be so cool, so smart, so arty…..and instead I am just a little evil Gremlin.  

    On these occasions when I loose it, I wish the ground would swallow me whole.

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      תגובות (65)

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      התחברות או הרשמה   

      סדר התגובות :
      ארעה שגיאה בזמן פרסום תגובתך. אנא בדקו את חיבור האינטרנט, או נסו לפרסם את התגובה בזמן מאוחר יותר. אם הבעיה נמשכת, נא צרו קשר עם מנהל באתר.
      /null/cdate#

      /null/text_64k_1#

      RSS
        24/6/07 15:24:
      Thanks. It’s true in a way. But I decided to start using my own. Fearful and excited I bow…lady’s and gentleman…the moment is now;-)
        24/6/07 12:30:
      iro, for sure i don't think it matter what words you use, as long as the feelings behind them are yours.
        24/6/07 12:23:
      You are very welcome. I hope to give you more of my own words, but I always have the feeling that others simply phrase it sooooooo much better;-) so maybe that’s my healing in the cafe 

       

        24/6/07 12:08:
      thank you for the beautiful quote.
        24/6/07 11:50:

      "Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments, but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures."
      – Joseph Addison

      No Pressure darling. Simply curiosity!  
        23/6/07 18:25:
      that's preasure all you'll find from reading me is more problems...
        23/6/07 13:06:

      Good to hear!

      I wil follow the process on your blog;-)

        22/6/07 22:19:

       

      Quote: iro 2007-06-22 19:11:53

      Surly you can see that only when your answer will be absolutely and without a doubt YES, I love myself- your “problem” will be solved. It’s not what your man does or doesn’t do which cause your suffering. It is your thought about it or him or what he should do or not do.Check: http://www.thework.com/index.asp and have a great w-end

       

      I am on it babe.

      I need to heal from inside out.

        22/6/07 19:11:
      Surly you can see that only when your answer will be absolutely and without a doubt YES, I love myself- your “problem” will be solved. It’s not what your man does or doesn’t do which cause your suffering. It is your thought about it or him or what he should do or not do.Check: http://www.thework.com/index.asp and have a great w-end
        22/6/07 15:10:

      iro, that's a big question, sometimes yes and sometimes less so.

      I just wish I liked myself more when I am with a guy. When I am alone I have to like myself I have no choice.....hehe

        22/6/07 12:38:
      The concept of someone else letting you feel loved or anything else for that matter only makes you suffer. Ask yourself if YOU make you feel loved?
        22/6/07 11:20:
      the question is does the man I am with give me the feeling that he is only with me....?
        22/6/07 11:13:

      thank you olivia I feel your warmth and understanding.

      and all is true and right.

      by the way the man has to understand also to let his girl feel loved and like you say let her feel she's the one, also to others not just when they are alone.

      love is not a game.

        22/6/07 10:09:

      I totally drank Iro's words and she is 100% right.

      I am also a very jealous person, jumping and loosing it for no reasons since I got married to someone who really loves me and would never harm me.

      But remnants from the past, old injuries and betrayal left their traces.

      I started an alternative therapy with an amazing woman (Sarit Salai-Kadosh) and I understood that behind the jealousy lies only fear, pain and sadness.

      Everytime I feel jealous, I try to hold myself and come back to rationality, I take a piece of paper and start to write what are the real emotions hiding behind the jealousy: fear of betrayal, of abandon, pain of past injuries, feeling put aside, not worthy, etc... Then at least I don't react like a wounded beast, and I can talk about it with open heart with myself, face my truth, and then speak about it with my man.

      I also explained him that some girls will always try to be queens of the harem, and that he is the one that always have to show that he has already chosen his queen!

      Love,

      Olivia

        21/6/07 23:47:

       

      Quote: iro 2007-06-21 23:45:07

      Consciousness  is the key to everything! Work and heal and remember that it is the healing process for which you are here and not the healed result.I can recommend you a GREAT book called Loving what is by Byron Katie to assist you! She is simply an amazing teacher. Thanks for loving my blog. It’s other people word’s but I always start my day with a few moments thinking about something wise said by one of the wisest;-) 

       

      I have had my key on some byron katie for some time.....I shall order some in.

      I do love your stolen words....always good to take the best....even if it'sother peoples words.....

        21/6/07 23:45:
      Consciousness  is the key to everything! Work and heal and remember that it is the healing process for which you are here and not the healed result.I can recommend you a GREAT book called Loving what is by Byron Katie to assist you! She is simply an amazing teacher. Thanks for loving my blog. It’s other people word’s but I always start my day with a few moments thinking about something wise said by one of the wisest;-) 
        21/6/07 23:20:

       

      Quote: גיל.ר. 2007-06-21 21:12:59

      תקשיבי, לך ולי יש את אותה הבעיה.... אם מישהו היה אפילו מסתכל על החברה שלי הייתי רודף אחריו ברחוב עם מנצ'טה.

       

      ahhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaa my ideal man

        21/6/07 23:20:

       

      Quote: iro 2007-06-21 20:01:49

      Every human being has a part of them that builds themselves up (make them feel selfrichess and proud) and a part them that beets themselves down and makes them feel shamed and humiliated. Those 2 persona are masks that we wear and cover over our heart which is our true and centred being. Relationships illuminate parts of yourself that are unhealed – such as the parts that dominate others, please others, judge others, and exploit others. Your new relationships will continue to illuminate the same unhealed parts in you until you heal them.When you invoke healing, the Universe responds. When you set the intention to heal your jealousy, for example, the Universe assists you by bringing to your attention more and more circumstances that activate your jealousy. When you are in a spiritual partnership, your intention will be to discuss those circumstances without blame and without guilt. That is because spiritual partners seek to know how their interactions serve their spiritual growth, even while they are experiencing painful emotions, such as jealousy. 

       

      you know I love your thoughts of the day at your blog, and I can't believe you wrote to me such a long answer and full of so much wisdom.

       

      In replay I have to say that my mother cheated on both her husbands for many years (one being my father of course) and well let's say I never got over it......

      I am trying to be honest and open about it, and I know it's my thing more then it is a real threat to me.

      I am just one person trying to work it all out....

       

      your comment was great.

        21/6/07 23:16:

       

      Quote: netr 2007-06-21 18:55:40

      Must admit that I ever never seen a green Gremlin. If you were a Gremlin you would have been a cute one. And you know sometimes we just loose it. I once had a flirtty ass bf that couldn't stop fleerting with every skirt around hoim, oh boy I wasnt nice at those time. Today i'm more cool about it, but no one is perfect.

       

      ahhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa yes the cute kind....I can't remember what they are called mogis or something (see photo).....

      no one is perfect but we try....Embarassed

        21/6/07 23:14:

       

      Quote: ליאור רועי 2007-06-21 18:25:05

      theres the saying that goes:

      "if you love him, let him go..

      if he comes back, you had him all along"

       

      (או משהו דומה..)

      אבל מה אני יודעת..

      אני לא מהסוג הקנאי אז אולי כדאי שאני אשתוק

      :-)

       

      my saying is let him go while he's only in his boxer shorts....

      he'll have to come back for his pants....

       

      lol

      your lucky your not the jealous type...

        21/6/07 21:12:

      תקשיבי, לך ולי יש את אותה הבעיה.... אם מישהו היה אפילומסתכל על החברה שלי הייתי רודף אחריו ברחוב עם מנצ'טה.

        21/6/07 20:01:
      Every human being has a part of them that builds themselves up (make them feel selfrichess and proud) and a part them that beets themselves down and makes them feel shamed and humiliated. Those 2 persona are masks that we wear and cover over our heart which is our true and centred being. Relationships illuminate parts of yourself that are unhealed – such as the parts that dominate others, please others, judge others, and exploit others. Your new relationships will continue to illuminate the same unhealed parts in you until you heal them.When you invoke healing, the Universe responds. When you set the intention to heal your jealousy, for example, the Universe assists you by bringing to your attention more and more circumstances that activate your jealousy. When you are in a spiritual partnership, your intention will be to discuss those circumstances without blame and without guilt. That is because spiritual partners seek to know how their interactions serve their spiritual growth, even while they are experiencing painful emotions, such as jealousy. 
        21/6/07 18:55:

      Must admit that I ever never seen a green Gremlin. If you were a Gremlin you would have been a cute one. And you know sometimes we just loose it. I once had a flirtty ass bf that couldn't stop fleerting with every skirt around hoim, oh boy I wasnt nice at those time. Today i'm more cool about it, but no one is perfect.

        21/6/07 18:25:

      theres the saying that goes:

      "if you love him, let him go..

      if he comes back, you had him all along"

       

      (או משהו דומה..)

      אבל מה אני יודעת..

      אני לא מהסוג הקנאי אז אולי כדאי שאני אשתוק

      :-)

        21/6/07 16:43:

       

      Quote: nookie 2007-06-21 16:40:24

      damn, u r so human & honest! work on yr self estim & trust yrself, u can always cross 2 de bigami side, where people don't get jealous, cos' they don't get attached

       

      ok that all sounded very bad....not good to be honest?

      I don't want to be in this place where no one gets attached....sounds cold.

       

      I would like to trust myself more.

        21/6/07 16:40:
      damn, u r so human & honest! work on yr self estim & trust yrself, u can always cross 2 de bigami side, where people don't get jealous, cos' they don't get attached
        21/6/07 16:38:

       

      Quote: אדם לב ארי 2007-06-21 16:35:42

      Talking about law self esteem,ha?
      Flirting with the waitress is a big no no. :-P
      You can't be perfect, only very close to it...
      You should inspire to become as close as you can.
      Just remember that even though he talked to the waiterss and even maybe smiled to her direction... he is there with you. It is with you which he comes back home. It is you, inward and outward that which he loves.Maybe she is somewhat goodlooking but it doesn't mean that he wants her. (well, maybe for just one night... ;-) )

       

      some of what you said was quite touching and made me consider your words carefully even shall I say convinced me

      but the whole for one night thing.....no no no.

      ok so I shall strive to be perfect....

      heaven help the man should do something....lol

        21/6/07 16:35:
      Talking about law self esteem,ha?
       
      Flirting with the waitress is a big no no. :-P
       
      You can't be perfect, only very close to it...
      You should inspire to become as close as you can.
      Just remember that even though he talked to the waiterss and even maybe smiled to her direction... he is there with you. It is with you which he comes back home. It is you, inward and outward that which he loves.Maybe she is somewhat goodlooking but it doesn't mean that he wants her. (well, maybe for just one night... ;-) )
       
        21/6/07 16:08:

      ok so a) love myself  b) have self confidence c) accept yourself

      d) make him understand your the best e) plenty of fish in the sea f) don't tell him when your jealous......

       

      so much to do and learn.

      Thanks Laughing

        21/6/07 16:04:

      הקנאה... הדבר הכי נורא... משום מה לא חליתי בזה... אין לי את זה, ואיך מצליחים להיפטר מהדבר הנורא הזה? ביטחון עצמי!

      ריכשי לך ביטחון עצמי, תאהבי את עצמך! קבלי את עצמך במלוא מובן המילה, כולל הכל! את הדברים הטובים, את הפחות טובים וגם את הרעים. רגע שתעשי זאת, תיגמלי מעניין הקנאה!

      ברגע שתביני שהגבר שלך זכה בך, שהגבר שלך מקבל את הטוב ביותר, תביני שאין סיבה לקנא!

       

      תקלפי מעלייך את כל החששות להיות לבד, גם אם הוא ילך, so what? ההפסד כולו שלו! ואת רק תרוויחי את עצמך! ואיך האמהות היו אומרות לנו פעם? יש הרבה דגים בים...

      הלך אחד יבוא אחר!

      אל תקנאי, וטיפ קטן עבורך מהסתכלות על מה שעובר על גבר שלא מקנאים לו, גם אם את מתפוצצת מבפנים מקנאה, שימרי זאת לעצמך, אל תתני לו את העונג! שיתפוצץ הוא!

        21/6/07 15:10:

       

      Quote: אורן rose 2007-06-21 15:06:59

      יש כאן כתבה בנושא: http://www.ynet.co.il/articles/0,7340,L-3310405,00.html 

       

      בכתבה מוזכר הספר "צילה של האהבה: קנאה רומנטית" של הפסיכולוגית איילה מלאך-פיינס. ספר מצויין בנושא. אני ממליץ בחום.

       

      אני לא קנאי, אשתי לשעבר היתה קנאית בבסיס. זה בהחלט גרם לקשיים - אני לא הבנתי ממה היא עושה עניין... 

       

      Thank you....I think the book I need will have to be in English. To read about such

      subjects in hebrew will put me to sleep....lol

        21/6/07 15:06:

      יש כאן כתבה בנושא: http://www.ynet.co.il/articles/0,7340,L-3310405,00.html 

       

      בכתבה מוזכר הספר "צילה של האהבה: קנאה רומנטית" של הפסיכולוגית איילה מלאך-פיינס. ספר מצויין בנושא. אני ממליץ בחום.

       

      אני לא קנאי, אשתי לשעבר היתה קנאית בבסיס. זה בהחלט גרם לקשיים - אני לא הבנתי ממה היא עושה עניין... 

        21/6/07 14:21:

      yes yes yipee...

      subject number 103 for when we finally meet to talk about Surprised

        21/6/07 14:19:

      well, i used to be

      but i kept it all inside...

      now, i feel better about it

      we'll talk about it later on

      נשיקה

        21/6/07 14:15:

      you too? Oh dear we're a fine bunch....

      I thought you would never be the jealous type.....

      your so cool

        21/6/07 14:15:

      beautiful art

      thanx for saying all this things

      you are honest

      and it helps me

       

      i love you

       

        21/6/07 12:56:

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 12:54:03

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:52:23

       

      צטט: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

      אורן,

      אל תיקח את זה באופן אישי !!

      א. באמת מדובר בהכללה, וכדרכה של הכללה היא גסה ועושה עוול לפרטים שכלולים בה.

      ב. אבולוציונית, גברים בנויים אחרת, תפקידם בטבע הוא שונה, ולו הבחירה היתה בידם לא בטוח שהיו מעדיפים חיים מונוגמיים.

      ג. ועדיין, כמו שכתבתי לאפי בהמשך, אני מאמינה שכאשר היא תמצא את האחד שבאמת אוהב אותה ומעריך אותה כפי שהיא, רוב הסיכויים שלא תהיה לה שום סיבה להיות בלחץ ולקנא.

      1. אני לא כ"כ קונה את הקטע האבולוציוני. אני לא זוכר מתי היה לי הדחף לחבוט בארנב עם נבוט בשביל לאכול. דברים השתנו, זה הקטע באבולוציה.

      2. אפי בטוח תמצא, ומגיע לה

       

      oren you and tami have words....

      but as for me....thank you....

      I don't think I will stop feeling jealous.....that there's a guy who will make me loose my madness, for after all it has little to do with him.....

       

      I am very happy with my present guy even if I get jealous......from nothing....

        21/6/07 12:54:

       

      Quote: nimrodl 2007-06-21 12:53:29

       

      hmmm, did you mean this ? 

       

      evil gremlin 

       

      Only when I drink or smoke, the rest of the time I am the cute one (you basturd)

        21/6/07 12:54:

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:52:23

       

      צטט: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

      אורן,

      אל תיקח את זה באופן אישי !!

      א. באמת מדובר בהכללה, וכדרכה של הכללה היא גסה ועושה עוול לפרטים שכלולים בה.

      ב. אבולוציונית, גברים בנויים אחרת, תפקידם בטבע הוא שונה, ולו הבחירה היתה בידם לא בטוח שהיו מעדיפים חיים מונוגמיים.

      ג. ועדיין, כמו שכתבתי לאפי בהמשך, אני מאמינה שכאשר היא תמצא את האחד שבאמת אוהב אותה ומעריך אותה כפי שהיא, רוב הסיכויים שלא תהיה לה שום סיבה להיות בלחץ ולקנא.

      1. אני לא כ"כ קונה את הקטע האבולוציוני. אני לא זוכר מתי היה לי הדחף לחבוט בארנב עם נבוט בשביל לאכול. דברים השתנו, זה הקטע באבולוציה.

      2. אפי בטוח תמצא, ומגיע לה

        21/6/07 12:53:

       

      hmmm, did you mean this ? 

       

      evil gremlin 

        21/6/07 12:47:

       

      Quote: roni.a 2007-06-21 12:43:59

      תגידי..

      למה את מחמירה עם עצמך כל כך? זה רגש טבעי...

      נשיקה

       

      maybe here.....as I can see from people's reactions...

      but in England it's looked down on....the english tend to avoid all show of emotions. So I guess I am thinking inside my box....

       

      but this post is helping me to feel less bad about myself.....

        21/6/07 12:43:

      תגידי..

      למה את מחמירה עם עצמך כל כך? זה רגש טבעי...

      נשיקה

        21/6/07 11:56:

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:50:10

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:45:18

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:44:01

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:36:37

       

      oren, do men get jealous too?

      Hell, yeah! I'ts a natural reaction

      But it also depends how jealousy is expressed. 

      I say always keep cool

       

      from your words to my action hopefully.....

      I have mastered red hot, now I think I can try cool Cool

      Good. Drama Queens scare the crap out of me.

      I'm sure there are others like me

       

      I am a total drama queen (watch all the men run for the hills).....I come from a family of artists....what can you expect...

        21/6/07 11:55:

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:49:15

       

       

      for now can I give you a song

      Absolutely great song!!

      Thanks

       

      I know I love it. My pleasure dear.

        21/6/07 11:52:

       

      צטט: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

      אורן,

      אל תיקח את זה באופן אישי !!

      א. באמת מדובר בהכללה, וכדרכה של הכללה היא גסה ועושה עוול לפרטים שכלולים בה.

      ב. אבולוציונית, גברים בנויים אחרת, תפקידם בטבע הוא שונה, ולו הבחירה היתה בידם לא בטוח שהיו מעדיפים חיים מונוגמיים.

      ג. ועדיין, כמו שכתבתי לאפי בהמשך, אני מאמינה שכאשר היא תמצא את האחד שבאמת אוהב אותה ומעריך אותה כפי שהיא, רוב הסיכויים שלא תהיה לה שום סיבה להיות בלחץ ולקנא.

        21/6/07 11:50:

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:45:18

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:44:01

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:36:37

       

      oren, do men get jealous too?

      Hell, yeah! I'ts a natural reaction

      But it also depends how jealousy is expressed. 

      I say always keep cool

       

      from your words to my action hopefully.....

      I have mastered red hot, now I think I can try cool Cool

      Good. Drama Queens scare the crap out of me.

      I'm sure there are others like me

        21/6/07 11:49:

       

       

      for now can I give you a song

      Absolutely great song!!

      Thanks

        21/6/07 11:45:

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:44:01

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:36:37

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

       

      oren, do men get jealous too?

      Hell, yeah! I'ts a natural reaction

      But it also depends how jealousy is expressed. 

      I say always keep cool

       

      from your words to my action hopefully.....

      I have mastered red hot, now I think I can try cool Cool

        21/6/07 11:44:

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:36:37

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

       

      oren, do men get jealous too?

      Hell, yeah! I'ts a natural reaction

      But it also depends how jealousy is expressed. 

      I say always keep cool

        21/6/07 11:41:

       

      Quote: michal_he 2007-06-21 11:38:25

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:13:25

       

      Quote: michal_he 2007-06-21 11:08:08

       

       

      אני ממש יודעת על מה את מדברת, מביך לפרט, אבל התכתבויות וירטואליות הן בהחלט גורם לקינאה ואנחנו לא לבד.

       

      girls sending their phone numbers to my man....ooooooooooooooohhhhh drives me crazy.

      but yes let's not go into details its too embaressing.

      glad you know how I feel.

        21/6/07 11:38:

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:13:25

       

      Quote: michal_he 2007-06-21 11:08:08

      את לא לבד ואני לא חושבת שמצאו לזה תרופה.

      אנחנו נמשיך להיות ירוקות מקנאה, אבל לפחות יש לנו רגשות ואנחנו מודעות לתחושות שלנו, זה כבר משהו.

       

      oh michal if only you knew....

      I get jealous by every little thing....even virtual things that have no meaning anyway...

      in short madness is all around me.

      But here you are saying it's because we have feelings....good take....

      damage control for the future. Embarassed

      אני ממש יודעת על מה את מדברת, מביך לפרט, אבל התכתבויות וירטואליות הן בהחלט גורם לקינאה ואנחנו לא לבד.

        21/6/07 11:38:

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:35:32

       

      I don't even see it as despret I just have a fuse missing.

      So what your saying is be good to them......I will try that...lol

      You don't have to be good to anybody, just be yourself

      When the one who really appriciates the self in you will arrive, it will work out for both of you

      If it doesn't - he's not supposed to be the one

       

       

      ok I will wait paitently....

       

      for now can I give you a song

        21/6/07 11:36:

       

      Quote: l_oren 2007-06-21 11:33:11

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

       

      oren, do men get jealous too?

        21/6/07 11:35:

       

      I don't even see it as despret I just have a fuse missing.

      So what your saying is be good to them......I will try that...lol

      You don't have to be good to anybody, just be yourself

      When the one who really appriciates the self in you will arrive, it will work out for both of you

      If it doesn't - he's not supposed to be the one

       

        21/6/07 11:33:

       

      צטט: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

      הכללה גסה ומרושעת

        21/6/07 11:23:

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:18:21

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:11:33

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

       

      OMG really.....and there I was trusting the lying cheating basturds!

       

      no come on some of them are totally innocent.

      I am so ALERT!

      Don't be that desperate

      The one who'll love you deeply - will be faithful

      Men have another feature: they depend on the woman whe's good for them

       

      I don't even see it as despret I just have a fuse missing.

      So what your saying is be good to them......I will try that...lol

        21/6/07 11:18:

       

      צטט: artgirl 2007-06-21 11:11:33

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

       

      OMG really.....and there I was trusting the lying cheating basturds!

       

      no come on some of them are totally innocent.

      I am so ALERT!

      Don't be that desperate

      The one who'll love you deeply - will be faithful

      Men have another feature: they depend on the woman whe's good for them

        21/6/07 11:13:

       

      Quote: michal_he 2007-06-21 11:08:08

      את לא לבד ואני לא חושבת שמצאו לזה תרופה.

      אנחנו נמשיך להיות ירוקות מקנאה, אבל לפחות יש לנו רגשות ואנחנו מודעות לתחושות שלנו, זה כבר משהו.

       

      oh michal if only you knew....

      I get jealous by every little thing....even virtual things that have no meaning anyway...

      in short madness is all around me.

      But here you are saying it's because we have feelings....good take....

      damage control for the future. Embarassed

        21/6/07 11:11:

       

      Quote: תמי ר 2007-06-21 11:07:57

      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה

       

      OMG really.....and there I was trusting the lying cheating basturds!

       

      no come on some of them are totally innocent.

      I am so ALERT!

        21/6/07 11:10:

       

      Quote: פוקסי 2007-06-21 11:04:31

      love it when you get angry

       

       

      I once found my boyfriend talking with his ex at his work, it was all very innocent (she was pregnant from onther guy and had to talk to someone)....

      well I didn't know all that.

      I walked in, saw them, ran out, he ran after me, I threw his keys at him, crying and hailed a cab....

      it was like a french film.

       

      In short I calmed down after flowers and 50 phone calls...

      I am totally nuts....

      but he said it was very funny.

        21/6/07 11:08:

      את לא לבד ואני לא חושבת שמצאו לזה תרופה.

      אנחנו נמשיך להיות ירוקות מקנאה, אבל לפחות יש לנו רגשות ואנחנו מודעות לתחושות שלנו, זה כבר משהו.

        21/6/07 11:07:
      Sweetie, I hate to tell you that, but when it has to do with men,  I think  you're not wrong.  Men are bound to be unfaithful by their nature. But lets not call your attitude jealousy, lets call it – being alert…נשיקה
        21/6/07 11:04:

      love it when you get angry

        21/6/07 11:03:

      oh thank god.

      I thought I was the only one. I hate it...

      why couldn't I just be perfect?

       

       

        21/6/07 11:02:

      גם אני.

      אבל זה בגלל שאי אפשר להיות מושלמות כל הזמן תמים

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