hi
sorry i dont have ivrit at the moment
I want to tell you not to take on the father's problem
your daughter is happy?
you have a good relationship?
good
very good
the father disconnected
the daughter reacts
not your problem
you have enough to deal with
oyou have enough to do being a single parent
however if you feel ok
please tell her
that you are feeling ok with her seeing her father
honesty
is the best
at the age level of course
if you dont feel good about her seeing her father talk about it in therapy
is there a reason?
something to fear?
however the relationship between the father and the daughter should be dealt with by the father
my daughter did not choose to see her father
she is very clear about that
and though i allowed her to choose
i am happy
there is a reason we are not together
if he was a great father i would be sad
but since he too put himself first and the children last
i dont think it is a mistake not to encourage a relationship
i dont think there ar erules that MUS T be kept
if a father fails to be consistant
and communicate
to his children his care and love
then is it any wonder the child rejects him?
no
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